1. "I was astonished, " said Lingoes . 2. Lingoes found striking similarities between Unterhuber and the remains.3. "I was just determined, " said Lingoes , now 45. 4. Avid travelers, the Lingoes traveled twice around the world, and visited 60 countries. 5. Shadowed by his own anguish _ the tragic murder of his nephew _ Lingoes never stopped searching. 6. "We don't know if it's him or not, " said Lingoes . 7. All Lingoes could think about was a lonely family somewhere, waiting for a knock on the door that would never come. 8. "He was my sister's only son and he was like a son to me, " said Lingoes . 9. Part of Lingoes 's job at the Police Department is to try to match identities of a missing person with a homicide victim. 10. On March 21, 1991, Bobby Lingoes , a civilian dispatcher at the Quincy Police Department, was called upstairs to the detective bureau.